Sex Meetup Tip #3: Prepare for the Night

Once you’ve met a woman online, you’re going to want to meet her in person. That’s the goal of your entire weekend, so make sure you’re ready for the night you’re about to have before it begins.

You’re going to want to have a few things packed and ready to go. If this is a one night stand, you’re probably not going to want to bring her back to your house or flat. Safety should come first in situations like this, and having a stranger know where you live isn’t the best policy.

For just about any time when you’re going to meet up with a woman for sex, you’re going to want to be prepared in a variety of ways. You’ll want to wash up before you leave, obviously. Take a shower, if at all possible, because if things go well, you’re going to want to have every crevasse properly cleaned and in working order.

Packing item #1: Toothbrush

The first thing you want to pack is a toothbrush, and as a secondary measure, whatever other toiletries you cannot live without for a period of 12-15 hours (in case you wind up spending the night with her somewhere).

The toothbrush is to combat the worst of all dinnertime offenders: bad breath. If you have a toothbrush handy and ready, you’re able to eat whatever you want at supper and not worry about whether or not your breath is going to be noticeably bad later.

Of course, you may not be able to brush your teeth. If that’s the case, at least you’ve washed up beforehand. That’s better than nothing, and we guarantee that your date will appreciate the effort.

Packing item #2: Protection

If you’re going to be going home (or to a hotel) with a woman, you’re going to need to bring protection along with you. It doesn’t matter if you think you need it or not, you MUST bring protection.

First, you don’t know if the woman you’re meeting is 100 percent free from diseases.

She might say that she is, but you’ve only just met her. We’re not saying that she’s not trustworthy, but she’s essentially a stranger to you. If you wouldn’t give her your bank card, you shouldn’t give her the opportunity to infect you with some disease.

Second, it will make her feel more at ease.

A woman who sees you’re ready with protection—for your sake and her own—is a woman who feels more confident about going to bed with you, no matter how long she’s known you.

Third, you don’t want any surprises.

Unless you’ve had a vasectomy, you don’t know for sure that the woman you’re with won’t fall pregnant. Protect yourself from anything unexpected, and you’ll sleep easier at night, whether you’re alone or not.

Packing item #3: Lubricant

Only about half of women make enough natural lubricant in order to make sex easy and stress-free. That means you can make everything go much easier and without hitches if you bring along lubricant. Make sure to bring a water-based lubricant, since silicone-based lubes don’t react well with most or all brands of condoms.

No, not every woman will need lube. However, it’s much better to have it and not need to use it than to need it and find out that you’ll have to make a run out to the shops.

Packing item #3: Accessories

You don’t have to be completely vanilla about the kind of sex you’re planning to have with the woman you’re meeting for sex. If sex is wanted by both of you, you’re probably going to be able to have a lot of fun, even more than you might usually have with a partner.

Does she want to try toys? Does she want to try any other fun that requires props? If there’s a great deal of set-up involved, you might not feel like going that far the first night.

Figure out what she wants, and you’ll be amazed by how hard she’ll rock your world in return if you give it to her. Women can be very grateful for things like that, and you’ll be thrilled with the results.

Plus, having a woman completely worn out and sated because of your efforts is its own reward. If you’re doing everything right, you’ll be able to see that kind of a site often. Make sure you’re prepared, and above all, make sure you can find out what she wants and deliver it.