How to Find Love Online
Our guide is NOT just for guys who want to get laid once and leave, never to see the woman again. If you’re looking for a long time lover, we’re here for you. We have experience with that kind of relationship too, and we know that not every guy is looking for the exact same thing when it comes to the kind of woman they want to meet up with.
Yes, our tips are fantastic for guys who are looking to meet women for sex. We’ve had a lot of experience with that kind of relationship, and we know we can pull it off. However, we’ve also had experience (some of us, at any rate) with long-term relationships.
Here are our favorite sites for finding a love, not just a one-time fling, on the Internet:
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While we’re not saying that every person is going to have luck on these sites, we had a very decent time on here. They’re definitely legitimate sites, and we’d recommend them to pretty much any British man who’s looking to start a relationship and doesn’t know where to begin.
While you can use our hookup tactics to get a woman interested in you, remember that there’s more to beginning a relationship than just that. For example, you’re going to have to work a little harder to maintain the honesty of your persona.
You can’t risk the fact that your new girlfriend could find out you’ve lied about your job, for instance, so make sure you tell her the truth about what you do. However, the advice we give most men—that they can be vague about the specifics of their job—holds true for the first date. You can still say you “work in finance” if you’re a teller at a bank and you’re not sure you want to reveal that just yet, and save the details for another time.
These tips work just as well for a long-term relationship as they do for a one-night stand.
You can use our tricks to get a woman interested and KEEP her interested in you for a long time. It’s important to remember that just because you’re using tips that are designed to get a woman interested quickly, the tips are the same no matter whether you want to leave right after or stay around for an extended period of time.
We’re just telling you how to get a woman interested.
You’re welcome to use those tips on women when you’re looking for love, just as much as you are to use them when you’re looking for sex. Women are going to react pretty much the same way to these tips on all websites, the ones focused on hookups and the ones focused on relationships.
The biggest thing you need to focus on when you’re looking for women for relationships is that you need to go to where these women actually go looking for men. If you’re just hanging around hookup sites looking for women who are willing to spend time with you, you’re going to be wasting your time—and the time of the women who are looking to meet up with you.
You need a different kind of site.
No, not every site fits all. Even the sites that are focused on helping you find women aren’t going to be great if you’re looking for a girlfriend. They’re all focused on making sure you get laid tonight, not on making sure you find someone special to spend your life with.
The sites that are best for helping you find dates are not necessarily the best ones to help you find love. We’ve noticed in the time that we spent evaluating dating sites that some sites are great for hookups—but others are far better for those looking for women to date for extended periods of time, or even for marriage and the like.
We’ve compiled those sites, too.
No, we haven’t left you out. Up above, we put together a list of the best sites for men who want a relationship rather than just a quick hookup, so you can see our results for these sites just as well as the short-term hookup sites.
Take the first date easy.
There’s a lot less first date pressure on you if you choose to find a woman who’s looking for love, not just for tonight. On a hookup, there’s significant pressure that everything goes right IMMEDIATELY. You don’t want to risk the woman you’re taking out deciding you’re only maybe worth a second date, because on a hookup date, you only get one chance.
On a regular date if you’re angling for a relationship, you might get more chances. We’re not saying you should relax your game, but you do have a little less pressure on you to make sure the first date goes 100 percent according to plan.
Remember to focus on the first date, not the second date.
One mistake a lot of blokes make, whether they’re looking for sex or looking for something more permanent, is focusing on what comes after the first date instead of the date itself.
For men looking to get laid, this manifests as overly-interested in meeting this woman for sex later. He’ll ask questions about meeting for sex, try to hint that they are committed later, and make every attempt to bring it up, which is foolish and won’t help at all.
For men looking for something more, this manifests as extreme interest in the second date. If there’s going to be a second date, she’ll make sure you know she’s open to being asked out again. If you push for a second date while you’re still on the first one, she’ll likely be uncomfortable. Don’t push it, and don’t rush her.
Sound out her interests.
If you want to see her for more than just tonight, this will be a HUGE help to you later. When you’re on the first date, you pretty much have carte blanche to ask about all of her interests—what she’s into, what she’s passionate about, and what she loves. You can ask her favorite animals, colors, music, movies, anything like that.
This will help you out a lot later on, in any relationship. When you get home from the date, jot down what you remember. If you can later get her presents for her birthday, the holidays, whatever, based on these interests, she’ll know that you’re paying attention and that her happiness is important to you. Our blog has more advice on dating secrets.
If you run out of things to talk about, remember her dating site profile. That’s a cheat sheet to the things she thinks she’d like to talk about on the first date. If you can’t think of anything, remember that she’s interested enough in those things that she put them on her list of things that even a stranger could talk about with her.