Nothing is more disappointing than going through the effort of going down on a woman only to have her not return the favor. While you need to be nice at the time to save face, it’s time to start planning your attack strategy for the future. After all, it’s only right that she reciprocate after you did your part. Oral sex gets a bad wrap amongst women, so how do you get her to overcome the stigma and give you the blowjob you deserve?

Flavored Lube

“Use a flavored lube on your penis”

Some women are put off by the taste and texture of your dick – help them get over it by picking up some flavored lubricants at your local sex shop. Depending on how extensive the shop is, you’ll find every type from basic strawberry to smoothie. Let her pick whatever flavor she wants so that she has something tasty to lick on when she goes down on you. Not only will she be more enthusiastic because of the flavor, she’ll also be happy that the lube makes it slicker and easier to swallow. Instead of a penis, she will think of it more like a lollipop and that will make it something she wants to lick.

Throat Lozenges

“Throat Lozenges will make her tongue numb so that she can go down easily”

If your lady is worried about gagging, pick her up some of these. You can get them in spray or lozenge form, and they are miracle workers. This is the stuff you use when you have a sore throat, and it numbs the tongue and throat so that you don’t feel the ache anymore. It’s convenient for her, because when her throat is numb and won’t constrict when she deep throats you, she’ll be much more eager to do it. A sensitive gag reflex can ruin oral sex, so if she’s touchy then throat lozenges are the only way you’re getting her to go down.

Let Her Take Control

A huge part of the stigma amongst girls with giving blowjobs is the fear of men taking too much control and nearly choking them trying to get off. While you’re probably not into that, don’t expect her to know that. If she isn’t used to giving head, then she just knows what her friends have told her and it’s up to you to banish those stereotypes far away. Instead of sitting back with your dick out like you’re expecting something, ask her nicely to go down on you. it seems a lot better than being demanding or making her feel obligated to do it, and she’s more likely to comply. If she’s not used to it, give her some space and let her take her time. It might take you longer to get off, but it’ll be worth it for her to feel comfortable since she’ll be happy to do it again next time. While you might want to start thrusting away, let her take in what she can so she doesn’t choke. If she pulls back and asks you to move your hips, go ahead. It’s all about matching her pace – after all, you’re going to get off anyway. No need to rush.