When you meet a woman for the first time off a British sex dating site, you have to be prepared and know what you’re in for. A good rule of thumb to help the first meeting go well is to remain polite and professional. As strange as the word “professional” might sound when applied to meeting for a hook up, it’s applicable right up till the time you are on the mattress. We don’t mean that you should treat it as a frigid business transaction – unless you’re dealing with a prostitute but don’t act untoward until you get the green light that she’s into you. The thing is, if you make any wrong moves during that first meeting, it may cost you a night of passion. When meeting for the first time, both people are on guard. Let us take you through the first steps of meeting a woman and how to keep things going the way you want.

Stay Centered

“Do not try getting close to her too fast”

Don’t be too forward or too casual, just be polite and amicable. You can be straight forward – this isn’t a dark closet and you’re not in school – but make sure you’re not being crass. There’s an art to being subtle, and while it’s important to make it clear that you’re really looking for sex, you don’t have to treat her like she’s a hooker. The fact is: she’s not a hooker, and you’re not a client. This isn’t a business transaction in the sense of supply and demand. Be honest about your desires, and feel it out as you talk to her. Keep your guard up until the deal is done.

Don’t Ask Personal Questions

“Getting too personal with her will put her off”

It’s important to know the difference between casual questions and personal questions. For example, a casual question is whether she’s from around whatever city or town you two are meeting in. A personal question is where she grew up. Keep it polite and conversational. Do you really want to know where she’s from, anyway? No, probably not as you are just planning on having a hot few hours together. Besides, this information isn’t important so much as the ability to read her personality and deduce whether she’s going to be uptight or fun.

The Closer

“Do not treat her as a prostitute”

Assuming you meet each other and you get on, the most important part of the first meeting is the closing remarks. The whole point here is that you met each other to establish that you want to hook up, so the most important thing you have to do is to close the deal. Set a time and place when you want to meet up to have sex. This is the most delicate part of the negotiation process, because women don’t like to be made like they’re doing something shameful. Don’t treat it like a rendezvous with a prostitute. One way you can avoid coming off like a creep is to smile and address her desire before your own by asking if she’s into you. Then, if she says yes, feel free to be as open as you want.