Quickies are one of the most versatile types of sex. They’re supposed to be primal, in the moment, and satisfying without the pressure of a long build up or need to drag things out. However, it can be easy to misuse this. If the quickie isn’t satisfying to all parties, it will drop out of your life and you will be missing out on fantastic opportunities. This quick guide will help sketch out when and how to make the quickie a staple of your sex life.
When is the Best Time for a Quickie?
The best time for a quickie is when you and your lady are already flirting heavily. Sex should already be in the air before you even think of it; due to the nature of the act, it defeats the purpose to have to spend a long time on foreplay.
This also means that you can really only have a quickie if you are prepared. You should never leave home without a condom, so you should already have the materials aspect of the quickie covered. You also need the time. Even a quick sex session will leave you and her with messed up hair, crooked clothes, etc. Make sure that you have the time and materials to fix yourselves up afterwards, especially if you’re choosing to have this quickie in a semi-public location like a car or a secluded area of the park. Location is another aspect of the preparation triad; you need to have access to a backseat or a guest room for a few minutes so that you and your lady can have some privacy.
How to Make it Worth the Effort
The point of the quickie is to have an intense and gratifying sexual experience in a short amount of time. Thus, you don’t have to pace yourself. Aim for intensity by breaking out all of your sexual tips and tricks right away. If you have a woman who comes undone when you bite her neck, don’t wait for the last moment like you usually would. Start there. Ask her for what you want; a quickie is a good time for experimentation with rougher sex as well as faster sex.
If you want a woman to be open to more quickies in the future, this means that you have to be doubly sure that she gets her satisfaction. Make sure that you give her lots of clit stimulation as well as pussy; most women orgasm a lot more quickly from clit stimulation, so you can take care of her needs without having to slow your own pleasure, or defeat the purpose of a quickie.
The great thing about a quickie is that with a little planning (a hairbrush and a condom stashed in your car), you can enjoy yourselves almost anywhere. Keep in mind the finer points of execution, and you and your woman will be enjoying yourselves a lot more often and more intensely.